The service dog journey is hard enough on its own. Going through it alone only makes it harder. No one should have to do that — training a service dog requires a team behind you. The team should be made up of:
- a trainer
- someone to tell you the hard things
- friends who have been there, before
- the dog
- the dog’s breeders (if applicable)
A service dog doula, when done right, can be both someone to tell you the hard things (such as “talk to your trainer,” “he’s playing you,” or “go play with your pet dog — don’t make him be a service dog, right now — just a pet.) and a friend who has been there, before.
Someone who’s your friend and able to commiserate, comfort, and tell you the hard thing is someone that it is integral to have on your team. For me, the friends who have been through it before and person who told me the hard things were separate. Both were important, but when the person giving you tough love has also been there, before, it adds a whole new dimension to what they tell you.